Sunday, March 15, 2015

Just because - Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me (And Other Concerns)

Mindy Kaling is someone I admire, but with whose work I don't spend a ton of time interacting.  She's got a lot of the right ideas about women/gender politics, she's willing to own the fact that she is a person of color in a world where there are certainly not enough, but refuses to let herself become the person that people can ask "What do minorities think about this issue?" I need to watch the American version of The Office, and I absolutely need to start watching The Mindy Project.  That being said, I decided to read her memoir, Is Everyone Hanging out Without Me? (And Other Concerns).  I got hold-happy at the library when this book stumbled into my life, without even thinking about whether it fits into the 2015 Read Harder Book Challenge - if you were confused, it doesn't.  That's why I filed it under "just because," and rather than not read something because it doesn't fit into one of my categories, I'll continue to file them as "just because."

I breezed through this book very quickly. The writing style was very "autobiography conversational" and humorous, in a comedian-knowing-this-book-needs-to-be-funny-and-trying-a-little-too-hard kind of way.  I know that some people can be irritated by the feeling that a book is trying to hard, but in a memoir, I personally find it endearing rather than aggravating.

As far as content goes, I did enjoy her self-deprecating honesty.  I loved hearing how her career got started, and focusing on someone in the spotlight and successful who also happens to be introverted or socially awkward.  I think the message was great for teenaged girls and twenty-somethings (like myself) - at least for the most part. It was focused on a woman who is comfortable with herself and sharing some of her less flattering moments or moments of self-doubt that successful women seem to have a hard time talking about.  For me, it was a little happy ending/find a man driven at times, but A) this is true for many of the women reading the book, and B) this is her life so who am I to try and revise her inner thoughts?

If this book were longer or tough to get through, I would hesitate to recommend it.  However, I flitted through in just a couple days and recommend it as such.  Would be great for a plane or beach, or just a weekend where you don't want to tackle the epic novel you've been pulling through.